Benefits Of Not Having Children

If you have been battling with the decision of not having kids and you feel so guilty of that, here are some advantages associated with not having kids you need to know. There are quite a number of people who have decided not give birth for their own peculiar reasons of which one can be health complications.    Below are some benefits that are associated with not having children:    1. You have time for self-care.  2. You get to save money.  3. Give each other support.  4. You can get enough quality sleep.  5. Travelling.  1. Does your partner wants children?    2. How does your culture look at issues like this? This will not be taken lightly in some Africa countries so check where you are coming from.    3. Do you care much about what people will say about you? Especially close friends and relatives.    4. Do you have it in your mind to go for adoption? If you have decided not to have kids but you’re planning on adopting one, then you are of no difference to those who have kids of their own.    The advantages living a child-free life is inexhaustible. There are a lot of these benefits that were not covered in this piece.       A TINY JOKE      A man bought an egg from a grocery store. When he breaks it to prepare food with it, the egg was empty. He took it back to the grocery store and complained. The shop keeper broke the eggs and all were empty then they took the complaint to the poultry farm. When they reach the farm, the fowls saw them and started laughing ''look at these people, they don't know we have started using contraceptives".  You can get more of this joke on any post/article from this site.

If you have been battling with the decision of not having kids and you feel so guilty of that, here are some advantages associated with not having kids you need to know. 

There are quite a number of people who have decided not to give birth for their own peculiar reasons of which one can be health complications.

Below are some benefits that are associated with not having children:

1. You have time for self-care.

You will get ample time to take care of other things like hobbies, especially when you are into content or article writing, attend piano lessons, take a class or pick up a new sport, watching a football game etc. 

You will have enough time for yourself which enable you to have enough time to explore parts of yourself that you never knew existed. Your interests, your talents, your desires, and insights about your life can be explored.

2. You get to save money.

In this 21st century, raising a child to your desired level is quite expensive. The cost to bear on education alone is not easy not forgetting the money that will be spent on food, diapers and hiring nannies. 

All the money you don’t spend on medical bills, child care, birthday parties and many others can be channelled into savings. Giving your kids some kind of luxurious life will rip you off the opportunity to save up more money that could be used to take care of other things in the future.

3. Give each other support.

You will have enough time to spend with your partner without any interference from your kids. Not having kids allows you to fully focus on your relationship and ensure you’re growing together, not apart. 

Childless couples usually have more time to spend with each other. But that doesn’t mean it should all be spent together.

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4. You can get enough quality sleep.

Babies can be so demanding at times, and runs through from morning, afternoon, evening through to dawn. Until you have a newborn baby you have no idea about sleep deprivation. 

The incessant cry associated with new birth is inevitable. You will have to wake up deep in the night to attend to your crying baby. You baby must fall asleep before you can also go to bed. You also have to wake up as soon as your baby wakes up. This seems tedious, right?

5. Travelling.

Child-free parents have the freedom to move from one place to another without thinking or worrying about who they’ve left behind. 

Travelling with your kid is kind of costly and stressful. Aside it cost and stressfulness, travelling with kids leaves you no option than to travel to kid-friendly places. The presence of your kid(s) may force your visit place you have no interest in visiting.

Before you conclude your decision of not having kids, there three questions I personally recommend you ask yourself before settling your final decision.

1. Does your partner want children?

2. How does your culture look at issues like this? This will not be taken lightly in some Africa countries so check where you are coming from.

3. Do you care much about what people will say about you? Especially close friends and relatives.

4. Do you have it in your mind to go for adoption? If you have decided not to have kids but you’re planning on adopting one, then you are of no difference to those who have kids of their own.

The advantages of living a child-free life are inexhaustible. There are a lot of these benefits that were not covered in this piece.



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